COPING WITH RELATIONSHIP AND FAMILY PROBLEMS

Being with someone, in a relationship, in love, is probably one of the most amazing feelings for anybody. People see everything through the pink shades, where everything around the world seems lovely and amazing. But as time passes, this pink shade starts to fade off and the reality starts sinking in. You start to see the real person, them, the way they are, and that is when the journey of acceptance begins. Where you start to get in total sync with the person and the relationship starts to get stable gradually. This is also when arguments start to happen. When there arises a lot of disagreement between the couple and things start to get a little sour. 

When this starts to happen, the couple usually solve the fight on their own, accept each other’s viewpoints and then move on with life. But sometimes, some fights are so bad, or the incident that led to the fight might be so gruesome, that they might just not be able to solve it within themselves. They may confide into their close friends or people in the family, and when that too doesn’t help, they might have to consider seeing a therapist for couple therapy. A therapist is a well-well qualified and certified person who has an expertise in handling matters. He or she sits the couple down, talks to them about the situation, talks to them together and separately and tries to find out the main cause of the problem. 

Every problem has its own intensity, and each one of it takes time to resolve. The therapist that is helping the couple keeps each other’s point of views in front of each other and helps them understand each other’s viewpoints better. In some cases, the couple might decide to just part their ways. Many a times, there are families involved in this, especially the kids. To any child, this kind of setting of not seeing their parents together can be traumatizing. To help the children cope with this better, the parents may see family therapist in Mumbai. 

A family might want to consult a therapist not only when the parents are separating. Sometimes, some other unfortunate incidents too can shake the family entirely, such a death of someone very important in the family, coping with an abusive parent or something else. A family therapist focuses on first easing out the tension between the family and then helping them communicate with each other openly, in an accepting manner. 

When you are looking for a therapist for couple therapy Mumbai based, make sure you first do a background and review check about them. This is because you are going to express yourself entirely to them, and so, you do not want anybody not worthy or untrustworthy of it to know anything of your personal life and problems. Make sure you are also comfortable with your therapist as that is what makes you speak out better.