Many studies have shown,
and it is also a very popular belief that as the years are passing children are
becoming smarter and smarter as the generations are passing. A kid born three
years after the other would be smarter that the latter. This in turn gives rise
to a good amount of competition between the children. This competition can be
academic, like in studies, sports, other activities and it is found that it is
usually the parents that pressurise the children to person better or be the
best in the class and school. This in turn makes the children bitter against
each other and they start seeing leisure activities like a competition too. It
is good for children to have competitive spirit, but not to an extent where
they turn sore towards each other.
Childhood is that phase
of our lives that we cherish the most and have enjoyed the most. The innocence
that a human has back then sadly starts to fade away as they grow older and the
burden of choosing career paths starts taking over, killing the innocent child
within the human. With the daily routine to meet ends meet and to earn bread,
the child gets lost somewhere to just never return. Dreams, hopes aspirations
begin to seize and the big ball of reality hits our lives. Responsibilities of
family, pressure from peers and society has many a times led people to choose
what they do not want and give up on what they love the most and what they felt
would be the best option for them. This in turn leads to them feeling helpless
and worthless, pushing them into a vicious cycle a self-doubt and low
self-esteem. There are many centres that provide depression
counselling in Mumbai.
People might ace what
they do in their professional lives, they might be successful and flying
heights in terms of career, but all this is going to be unworthy if they are
not happy on the inside. If they are not happy with what they do, the success
they get doesn’t count anymore. This cycle of feeling unworthy can even push
someone into depression. A psychologist providing depression
therapy has suggested that many clients they get come to them with identity
crisis. Where even though they have had a steady career, they feel insecure
about themselves and want to find their true selves. Depression can happen to
anyone, anytime. It need not have a specific reason. A person can feel that way
without even any actual reason.
Depression does not
happen to just adults. Kids can be affected by this condition too. Recognising
the symptoms and getting help on time through child therapy is
what the parents or the guardian of the child should do. It is important to
look out for these symptoms in kids as they are never really going to
understand what it is happening to them. Talk to your child if they start
staying oddly isolated and silent, if they start throwing tantrums they have
never thrown before or if they complain of not feeling happy all the time.
Handing kids is a sensitive issue, which is to be done wisely.
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