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Trouble In Paradise? There Could Be Many Reasons For It


Every relationship goes through rough patches. Nothing is as rosy as pop culture makes it look and sound. And with the current social and economic situation, relationships will go through an even tougher test. That is not to say that every relationship will suffer and eventually fade out, it basically means that relationships will need to be handled with a lot more care. In such cases, the role of a relationship advisor becomes a lot more important. Once we all go back to normalcy, and couples go back to a time when they could take a break, go out for a walk, you would realise that things are getting better. However, the impact that this lockdown will have cannot be understated. This is where counselling, therapy, dialogue, and exercises will come into play and help relationships mend better and go back to normalcy.

Even without a lockdown, relationships can go through a difficult phase. Reasons like unemployment, infidelity, personal loss, and more can have a longstanding impact on the strongest of relationships. In such cases, the future comes down to a very simple question — are you willing to fight for this relationship or not? If the answer is no, then the result is simple, both of you part ways and begin the process of moving on. But, if the answer is yes, then you seek help. Family counseling or relationship therapist, whoever you go to, needs to help you two get better. First, look at the problems from a lens of objectivity. So often, when you are in a relationship, small problems seem bigger because your perspective is skewed by the past. That is where a therapist comes in and helps you look at the bigger picture.

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