Child psychologists
believe that a large majority of children experience severe emotional stress as
they enter their teens years. Interestingly, this is also the time kids tend to
alienate themselves from their parents leaving them with almost no support
system of any kind. Traversing the teenage years can be stressful for any kid
even though some do manage to cope better than others. In any case, here are
some signs you need to watch out for in your teen.
As any therapist for teens
will tell you, teenage is supposed to be a time when children get properly
exposed to society. They need to start forming their own social circles at this
point and learn what it means to live as a group. If your child seems to suffer
from social isolation or even social anxiety, there is a clear behavioral
problem at play here. On the other hand, peer pressure can be a major factor as
well. Kids at this age are fascinated by their peers and constantly seek you
emulate their friends. While you do need to give them some amount of freedom at
this point, you also need to watch out for signs of problems like alcohol and
drug addiction. Moving on to your own relationship with your child, some amount
of friction is to be expected and neither can you hope that your teen will
confide in you every possible detail of their life. However, if you ever notice
your relationship suddenly growing extremely distant and maybe even
distasteful, it's a clear sign that something could be wrong.
Ideally, a therapist for teens is supposed
to act as a friend and guide to teenagers. They won't confide all the details
of their therapy sessions with you but will let you know in case any red flags
turn up. On the other hand, you can rest easy knowing that a trained
professional is guiding and helping your child at every step.
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