TACKING PROBLEMS IN RELATIONSHIP

A relationship involves two people, two different personalities who come together, promising each other acceptance and completeness in their own way. When two people are in love, the initial stages or as many like to call it, the “honeymoon phase” does not last for more than a few months. After this phase is done, people actually start to understand each other. They realise that the person that they are with, might be way different than what they thought they would initially be. This is when the relationship undergoes a test. Problems in relationships start to occur and the couple has a challenge of either making or breaking their relationship.

It sometimes reaches such a crucial stage where staying together becomes too very difficult and they decide to take a break. Any relationship advisor would second this fact that occasions where the couple comes back together after a break, is rare. 

When such issues start happening in a long term relationship, tackling issues become more difficult as the two individuals have become co-dependant. Existing without each other comes out of the question for the two and usually hits the hardest on the person more involved.

There are many ways in which these problems can be solved. One way could be talking it out. Another way could also be of talking to friends you trust mutually. But even after all this, if there seems to be no way out, seeking a therapist becomes important. Ending relationships is not always the solution to every problem. Sometimes all that a relationship needs is for the two people to act maturely and address the issues that are hindering the smooth functioning of the relationship.

There is always a way out. All that is needed is for the two people in the relationship to be wanting to solve it and stick together. Sometimes, that is all that matters.