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AN INSIGHT ON COMMITMENT AND MARITAL ISSUES



There is no couple that does not have problems in relationships. The feel good phase or as many like to say, “The honeymoon phase” doesn’t last for more than three to six months. A relationship is a commitment that many people think twice before getting into, as it brings along with it a lot of other responsibilities. Imagine what level of responsibility marriage brings with itself then.
A wedding is a function that ends in a few days, but a marriage is a bond and a promise of a lifetime and the commitment is huge. To give your entire life to someone isn’t an easy thing after all. Marital issues and fears associated with it will come along with it. Sometimes people face issues to give a commitment. And that is when a therapy session is required. A well-qualified professional counsellor helps individuals deal with their fears related to commitments.
Though not a very regular practice, there are people who visit a marriage counsellor. The goal is not just to kill the fear of marital issues, but also make a person accepting enough of their responsibilities as a spouse.
There might be multiple reasons for problems in a relationship. What matters is how the two people choose to tackle them. It is important that a couple sits down and talks about the problems they are facing in the relationship. Small issues later become large which later spill over physical intimacy as well.
In some cases, couples do well for a period of time and then later find themselves over whelmed with the responsibilities that marriage brings with them. Research even suggests that the risk of marital issues and divorce is high in the early stages of marriage and the also risk increases when the couple has children and so on.

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