There is no couple that
does not have problems
in relationships. The feel good phase or as many like to
say, “The honeymoon phase” doesn’t last for more than three to six months. A
relationship is a commitment that many people think twice before getting into,
as it brings along with it a lot of other responsibilities. Imagine what level
of responsibility marriage brings with itself then.
A wedding is a function
that ends in a few days, but a marriage is a bond and a promise of a lifetime
and the commitment is huge. To give your entire life to someone isn’t an easy
thing after all. Marital
issues and fears associated with it will come along with
it. Sometimes people face issues to give a commitment. And that is when a
therapy session is required. A well-qualified professional counsellor helps
individuals deal with their fears related to commitments.
Though not a very
regular practice, there are people who visit a marriage counsellor. The goal is
not just to kill the fear of marital issues, but also make a person accepting
enough of their responsibilities as a spouse.
There might be multiple
reasons for problems in a relationship. What matters is how the two people
choose to tackle them. It is important that a couple sits down and talks about
the problems they are facing in the relationship. Small issues later become
large which later spill over physical intimacy as well.
In some cases, couples
do well for a period of time and then later find themselves over whelmed with
the responsibilities that marriage brings with them. Research even suggests
that the risk of marital issues and divorce is high in the early stages of
marriage and the also risk increases when the couple has children and so on.
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