Every couple has issues
between them. Some of them small that are manageable and some of them that need
to be addressed properly. We usually do turn to our friends as a relationship advisor. But does it always
help? In any kind of relationship, it is important that there is a 50-50
partnership between two people. It is like a bicycle that runs of two wheels,
the two people being the two wheels, that balance the motion of the cycle and
helps it move forward.
Communication plays a
major role in working of a relationship. Until and unless two people are not
frank and vocal about anything that bothers them in the other partner’s
actions, the issue is not going to be handled well. Not doing this is just
going to pile things up internally, and you are going to burst out someday, in
such an ugly manner, that it is definite to affect the bond between the two
people.
When the usual problems
also become difficult to address and handle, it is an indication that the
couple therapy has to be done. Couple therapy
helps the two people understand each other better and see things in a better
way from the other person’s point of view and be a little empathetic towards
each other.
The common reasons that
are addressed in couple therapy are issues with money, parenting, sex,
infidelity, gambling, and health issues and so on. The therapist will plan out
a way to chalk out issues according to the problem.
When a relationship
becomes difficult to work on no matter what you do, seeking help from outside
and that too from someone who is qualified to help is the best way to save your
relationship and work on it and make it better.
Getting help from
outside will help you both get a fresh perspective on many matters.
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