Family is one of the
biggest backbone and support in a person’s life. It is that support system
which he or she can fall back and be sure to not be judged or left alone to
suffer in silence. But what when this big pillar in a person’s life itself sees
a threat. What when this major foundation starts falling apart. Every family at
some or the other time sees and faces problems which they tackle together. But
when the situation starts getting out of hands and the family finds it
difficult to reconcile, it is important to opt for family counselling.
Problems in a family
can occur due to many reasons. The reasons could be financial, someone’s death
in the house, illness, some calamity that happened with the family, divorcing
parents, problems in the kids’ life and a lot more. If the problem within the
family has risen due to fight between the couple, then they should definitely
consider getting a couple therapy
for the same. A counselling psychologist for couple will first make the couple
sit for a talk and patiently listen to all the problems that they have within
themselves. He or she helps the couple try and understand each other’s point of
view in an issue. Some reasons as to why problems between couples can crop up
are distrust due to cheating, bad past of one of the partners, lack of sexual
intimacy, financial issues, ego clashes, problems with each other’s family,
lack of time, neglection and so on. A psychologist believes that there is no
problem that cannot be dealt without talking it out in a civil way.
However, this does not
apply in cases where there is abuse, emotional and physical involved within a
couple.
For any relationship to
flourish, it is very important to have a good communication and rapport set
between the said parties. This not only rules out the misunderstanding due to
miscommunication, but also gives way to non-judgemental understanding,
acceptance and a strong sense of trust.
It is a high
possibility, that a person facing challenges and difficulties from all nook and
corners of life may some day give up, loose hope and slip into depression.
Sometimes, all the energy that a human put in these never ending problems is
just lost and he or she may also loose the will to fight back. There is a thin
line between sadness and depression. The state of feeling sad ends once the
problem ends. But in depression, a person can continue to feel sad even though
there might be no problem at all. In such cases it is important that this
person gets a depression
therapy by visiting a counsellor. The counsellor may not provide hard and
fast solution to his or problems, but will surely guide the, through it.
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