Every couple has small
problems between them every now and then. But these problems are usually solved
by those two people and then they move on from it. If matters get a little
worse, then they make seek help from their immediate family or close friends who
know them well to reach some solution about their issue. But what if the
problem between them has actually burned all the bridges of reconciliation
between them? What if no matter what they do, they are not able to reach any
conclusion?
This is when the best
idea would be to see a marriage and family
therapist. A couple therapists would listen to both sides of the stories,
who did what and why and will make them sit down and see things clearly. A
couple therapists may also give exercise to the couple regenerate and establish
trust between them once again.
It is very important
for the two people in the subject to have a well-structured conversation with
both parties open to each other’s point of view. At the end, they might even
realise that all the chaos was just a part of bunch of misunderstandings and
nothing more. It is vital for both parties to keep their minds open during this
conversation.
A therapist providing couple therapy
Mumbai based has listed some of the common issues that occur between a
couple that is bought to their table.
Most common ones were distrust because of cheating, want for power in he
relationship, lack on intimacy (both mentally and physically), lack of
communication and attention, financial crisis, death in the family, past issues
and illness.
It is very important to
solve issues in an organised manner. This way, you can reach a solution that is
always going to be good for your mental peace.
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