Give Your Marital Issues A Fresh Perspective

Sometimes you hit a rough patch in your marriage. All relationships go through these issues, and while to you they may seem like the biggest deal in the world, to a third party that is looking at it from a non-biased point of view, the issues may not be that hectic. Martial issues are not uncommon. In fact, the Indian society is slowly progressing. Women are more empowered than they were in the past, the norms have changed and while gender inequalities do exist, there is still room for a woman to make herself independent rather than co-dependent.

With all these changes, where each member of the couple is his or her own individual person with their own goals of self-realisation and their own path of discovering themselves, a young couple may fall into the vicious circle of anxiety depression nervousness and ultimately the venting of frustration because neither of them are right nor wrong. It is difficult for them to deal with these situations because all they do is discuss problems instead of figuring out solutions. For solutions to marital issues, the simplest answer is couple therapy.

Couple therapy is a joint effort by both members of the couple to achieve a sense of happiness in their life and find a way to compromise that would make both people happy where neither feels like they had to miss out on something. It helps resolve conflict and helps make the situation easier for both partners. As couple therapy is not a one time thing it is easy for them to keep going back to the counselor as they self reflect and dive deeper into the root of all the problems.

There usually is a trigger to that situation and now there can be ways to identify a better way to identify the trigger and rectify the issue at the beginning instead of it turning into a long drawn argument.